So, we bought a house and moved somewhat recently.
Now, we moved in together eight weeks after meeting (and concurrently began our 24/7 power dynamic), so basically the entirety of our relationship has been living together in the one location we lived before we moved.
So for really the first time, we’ve had to see how our preexisting protocols do in a new long term setting. It’s interesting to notice patterns as we settle in.
For example, my office is now in the master’s retreat, a little room off the master bedroom separated by French doors that are often open. Now, if Mistress is in the bedroom, and dismisses me from her presence, and I go to my office, I can sit in the chair at my desk despite the fact we’re still very close by and not separated by anything, because we’re no longer actively engaged and it doesn’t count as using the furniture in her presence. This wasn’t really a thing with my old office whose door went to the hallway.
Meanwhile, there’s a wall downstairs with an open interior window and so a ledge one can sit on, and the stairs as we moved to a two story, and so on, and it had to be decided whether or not certain household features count as furniture. The one story we were in had different features.
Now that we have a lot more hardwood floors, I’ve found out that kneeling on them is a bit less cushioned but makes my legs go numb a lot slower. Overall, I like it slightly better.
Mistress’ office is much bigger now and importantly, I can access most of it without having to walk directly past her. We have and have had a protocol that if I come into a room (mostly her office) and don’t make eye contact with her, it doesn’t count as being in her presence and is a signal that I’m just passing through to use an object in there or clean something, and so I don’t need to ask permission (and what else I can do) to leave again, which would be the entirety of that interaction. The new layout makes avoiding said eye contact easier, which I’ve noted quickly. Convenient.
Little other things—the master bathroom has a separate toilet room and the (also French) doors to the main part of the bathroom don’t lock, meaning the rule about me not locking interior doors gets a little more intuitive when I get in the shower.
The rule on notifying her when I’m leaving the house kicked into effect for getting the mail, no more slot right in the garage door. Not a big deal, and I have to remember the mailbox keys, too.
Of course, numerous tiny service details have changed, too. It all has an effect, for sure.
It’s been really interesting to adjust, and I’m sure there are still things to discover; I look forward to it.