Index

24/7

On 24/7

On 24/7 #2

CNC

No Safewords, No Limits: An Elaboration

Shaming of “Unethical” Dynamics Within the Community

Why I Chose Irrevocable Consent as a Label, What It Means to Me, and Why I Write About It

Communication

Evaluating, Discussing, and Planning for Your Social Needs

The Benefits of Silence

The Contract Post

Day in the Slave Life

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#3

#4

Protocol

Higher Protocol Levels: The More Natural-Seeming the Dance, the More Thought-Out the Choreography

Honorifics: A Fascination

Noticing the Fork: How the Little Protocols Add Up

On Choosing S-Type Uniforms

On Refining Protocols

Protocols in a New Place

Slave Positions: Some Quick Thoughts

Uniforms and Challenges, the Literal and a Metaphor

What Protocol Really Says

Service

Balancing Control and Decision-Making as a Service

Invisible Anticipatory Service, Setting Your Own Recurring Tasks, and Some Advice

Learning in Anticipatory Service, and Some Advice

My Style of Entertaining, and Where I Got It From

On Service Settings and Headspace

Run It Like a Business: Organization in Slavery and the Love of the Process

Service Is an Ephemeral Art

Setting Recurring Tasks: What Comes Next

Some Services S-Types Can Offer

Service Skills

Creating a Butler’s Book

Digital Productivity

Event Debriefs

Hosting at Home

Making the Bed

Setting the Table

Submission

I’ve Always Been Like This

Letting Your M-Type Have It All

My Collar: Physical Considerations

On Finding Time for Yourself as a Slave

On Potato Peeling and Shakespearean Sonnets (Or, “Is It More Submissive to Enjoy Everything You’re Ordered to Do, or to Dislike Those Tasks but Do Them Anyway?”)

Service Slave Tendency Identification with Limited Kink Experience

Why I Live M/s

Words

Control/Service-Oriented and Anticipatory/Reactive Service

M/s vs. D/s

On the Linguistics of Being a Kinky Author, Regardless of What You’re Writing

Sadism vs. CNC