Note: Reading bolded posts first will give you the quickest idea of me/the blog, in my opinion. Not required!
Older posts may or may not be updated.
24/7
CNC
Decision Making and Internal Enslavement: A Metaphor
No Safewords, No Limits: An Elaboration
Shaming of “Unethical” Dynamics Within the Community
Why I Chose Irrevocable Consent as a Label, What It Means to Me, and Why I Write About It
Community
Principles Up: What Las Vegas TNG Will Be
Why I Teach (Or, the Biggest “I Told You So” Moment of My Life)
Day in the Slave Life
Lifestyle Masochism
#3 (Your Presence Is Requested)
What I Talk About When I Talk About Masochism
Protocol
24/7 High Protocol: First Thing in the Morning
“But How Do You Just Hang Out?”: High Protocol in 24/7 Dynamics
Higher Protocol Levels: The More Natural-Seeming the Dance, the More Thought-Out the Choreography
My Typical Day, Told in Slave Positions
Noticing the Fork: How the Little Protocols Add Up
On Asking Permission vs. Being Offered It
Uniforms and Challenges, the Literal and a Metaphor
What Protocol Really Says, Again
Service
Balancing Control and Decision-Making as a Service
I Don’t Think of Self Care as Service
Invisible Anticipatory Service, Setting Your Own Recurring Tasks, and Some Advice
Learning in Anticipatory Service, and Some Advice
My Style of Entertaining, and Where I Got It From
On Service Settings and Headspace
Selecting Service Tasks in a World of Automation and Outsourcing
Some Services S-Types Can Offer
Service Skills
Using Homemade/Natural Cleaners
Submission
A Moment—Chronic Fatigue in M/s
Letting Your M-Type Have It All
My Collar: Physical Considerations
Service Slave Tendency Identification with Limited Kink Experience
The Slave Bell (Our Pager System)
Tales From the Butler Academy
1: I’m a Slave; Why Am I Going to Butler School?
2: Etiquette Drills and Compassion
3: The “Butler’s” Relationship With Their “Employer”
Words
Control/Service-Oriented and Anticipatory/Reactive Service
On the Linguistics of Being a Kinky Author, Regardless of What You’re Writing
Service Slave Secrets 