Note: Reading bolded posts first will give you the quickest idea of me/the blog, in my opinion. Not required!
Older posts may or may not be updated.
Control/Service-Oriented and Anticipatory/Reactive Service
Invisible Anticipatory Service, Setting Your Own Recurring Tasks, and Some Advice
Learning in Anticipatory Service, and Some Advice
“But You Could Walk Out Right Now”: What Really Keeps People in Relationships
Decision Making and Internal Enslavement: A Metaphor
No Safewords, No Limits: An Elaboration
Shaming of “Unethical” Dynamics Within the Community
What Makes Irrevocable Consent Okay?
Why I Chose Irrevocable Consent as a Label, What It Means to Me, and Why I Write About It
Day in the Slave Life
Example: Top Three for the Week
Example: Your Presence Is Requested
What I Talk About When I Talk About Masochism
“But How Do You Just Hang Out?”: High Protocol in 24/7 Dynamics
“But Isn’t It Automatic?” (Learning in High Protocol)
High Protocol: The More Natural-Seeming the Dance, the More Thought-Out the Choreography
My Typical Day, Told in Slave Positions
Noticing the Fork: How the Little Protocols Add Up
On Asking Permission vs. Being Offered It
The Slave Bell (Our Pager System)
Uniforms and Challenges, the Literal and a Metaphor
What Protocol Really Says, Again
Balancing Control and Decision-Making as a Service
I Don’t Think of Self Care as Service
My Style of Entertaining, and Where I Got It From
On Service Settings and Headspace
Selecting Service Tasks in a World of Automation and Outsourcing
Some Services S-Types Might Offer
Using Homemade/Natural Cleaners
How Slavery Limits Me, and Why It’s Worth It
Letting Your M-Type Have It All
My Collar: Physical Considerations
My Top Three S-Type Archetypes in Vanilla Words
Potato Peeling and Sonnets: Is It More Submissive to Love a Task, or to Dislike It but Do It?
Service Slave Tendency Identification with Limited Kink Experience
Tales From the Butler Academy
I’m a Slave; Why Am I Going to Butler School?
Is Butler School Right for You?
Tales From the Butler Academy: Etiquette Drills and Compassion
Tales From the Butler Academy: Modules 0-9
Tales From the Butler Academy: The “Butler’s” Relationship With Their “Employer”