24/7
CNC
No Safewords, No Limits: An Elaboration
Shaming of “Unethical” Dynamics Within the Community
Why I Chose Irrevocable Consent as a Label, What It Means to Me, and Why I Write About It
Protocol
“But How Do You Just Hang Out?”: High Protocol in 24/7 Dynamics
Higher Protocol Levels: The More Natural-Seeming the Dance, the More Thought-Out the Choreography
My Typical Day, Told in Slave Positions
Noticing the Fork: How the Little Protocols Add Up
On Asking Permission vs. Being Offered It
Uniforms and Challenges, the Literal and a Metaphor
What Protocol Really Says, Again
Service
Balancing Control and Decision-Making as a Service
Invisible Anticipatory Service, Setting Your Own Recurring Tasks, and Some Advice
Learning in Anticipatory Service, and Some Advice
My Style of Entertaining, and Where I Got It From
On Service Settings and Headspace
Some Services S-Types Can Offer
Service Skills
Submission
Letting Your M-Type Have It All
Lifestyle Masochism: What I Talk About When I Talk About Masochism
My Collar: Physical Considerations
Service Slave Tendency Identification with Limited Kink Experience
Words
Control/Service-Oriented and Anticipatory/Reactive Service
On the Linguistics of Being a Kinky Author, Regardless of What You’re Writing
