Recommended Resources

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BDSM/General

Dear Raven and Joshua by Raven Kaldera and Joshua Tenpenny

FLAIR

House Exeter

House of Kush

Leather Solidarity

Manual Creation by Machele Kindle

Master/slave Mastery – Updated by Robert Rubel and M. Jen Fairfield

M/s 301

Paradigms of Power by Raven Kaldera

Pragmatic Kink

SADE

Science of BDSM

Slavecraft by Guy Baldwin

Slave-ography by Slave Patrick

SM 101 by Jay Wiseman

Submissive Guide (Books)

The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton

Butlers

Butlers and Household Managers, 21st Century Professionals by Steven Ferry

Serving the Wealthy: The Modern Butler’s & Household/Estate(s) Manager’s Companion: Volumes 1 and 2 by Steven Ferry

The Butler Speaks by Charles MacPherson

Community

Creating Captivating Classes by Shay and Stefanos Tiziano

Hosting a Protocol Event by UnrulyNerdGirl

Leather Leadership Conference

The Art of Gathering by Priya Parker

Customer Service

Be Our Guest by Theodore B. Kinni

Lessons in Service from Charlie Trotter by Edmund Lawler

Start with Why by Simon Senek

Study.com’s Hospitality & Tourism Management Training

Typsy.com’s Classes (Especially Table Service and Housekeeping Principles/Applications)

Food, Alcohol, Cigars

Alcohol Awareness Card Course (Varies By Location)

Bartending For Dummies by Ray Foley

Dictionary of Culinary & Menu Terms by Rodney Dale

Food Allergy Training by 360Trainings

Food Safety Manager Card Course (Varies By Location)

How to Repair Food by Tanya Zeryck

Pocket Wine Book by Hugh Johnson

The Art of The Table by Suzanne von Drachenfels

The Ultimate Cigar Book by Richard Carleton Hacker

Think Like a Chef by Tom Colicchio

Wine Folly: the Essential Guide to Wine by Madeline Puckette

Wine For Dummies by Ed McCarthy

Mental Health and More

Almost Anorexic by Jennifer Thomas and Jenni Schaefer

Anti-Diet by Christy Harrison

An Unquiet Mind by Kay Redfield Jamison

Brain on Fire: My Month of Madness by Susannah Cahalan

Building a Non Anxious Life by Dr. John Delony

Confessions of a Sociopath by M.E. Thomas

Girl, Interrupted by Susanna Kaysen

Goblin Tools (App)

Health At Every Size

How to Keep House While Drowning by KC Davis

Intuitive Eating

Kink Between the Lines

Plate By Plate

Recovery Road

Sociopath by Patric Gagne

The Appetite (Podcast)

The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt

The Best Minds by Jonathan Rosen

The Coddling of the American Mind by Greg Lukianoff and Jonathan Haidt

The Collected Schizophrenias by Esmé Weijun Wang

The Great Pretender by Susannah Cahalan

THRIVE

Productivity and Philosophy

8760 Hours

Atomic Habits by James Clear

Building a Second Brain by Tiago Forte

Deep Work by Cal Newport

Digital Minimalism by Cal Newport

Essentialism by Greg McKeown

From Chaos to Creativity by Jessie Kwak

Getting Things Done by David Allen

How to Calm Your Mind by Chris Bailey

How to Do Nothing by Jenny Odell

Hyperfocus by Chris Bailey

Meditations by Marcus Aurelius

Saving Time by Jenny Odell

Slow Productivity by Cal Newport

Stress Free Productivity by Alice Boyes

The Power of Ritual by Casper ter Kuile

The Productivity Project by Chris Bailey

The Unapologetic Professional by Brianna Doe

Protocol and Etiquette

Debrett’s New Guide to Etiquette and Modern Manners by John Morgan

Emily Post’s Etiquette by Emily Post

Master/slave Mastery – Protocols by Robert Rubel and M. Jen Fairfield

Protocols: A Variety of Views by Robert Rubel

The Amy Vanderbilt Complete Book of Etiquette by Nancy Tuckerman and Nancy Dunnan

The Ritual of Dominance & Submission by David English

Relationships

Becoming Bulletproof by Evy Poumpouras

Polysecure by Jessica Fern

Set Boundaries, Find Peace by Nedra Glover Tawwab

The Other Significant Others by Rhaina Cohen

Safety

Bloodborne Pathogens Training by CPR.io

Fire Safety Training by ProTrainings

Redcross.org’s Classes (Especially “Adult, Child and Baby First Aid/CPR/AED”, “Cat and Dog First Aid”, and “Psychological First Aid”)

The American Red Cross First Aid and Safety Handbook by American Red Cross

Service

Erotic Slavehood: A Miss Abernathy Omnibus by Christina Abernathy

Good Housekeeping Home Skills

Home Comforts: The Art and Science of Keeping House by Cheryl Mendelson

The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up by Marie Kondo

Real Service by Raven Kaldera and Joshua Tenpenny

Service Oriented Conference (and Service Chats)

Tarot and Beyond

All the Kabbalah You Really Need to Know

Biddy Tarot (“Read Tarot With Confidence” Course)

Modern Dreamwork by Linda Yael Schiller

Queer Magic by Tomás Prower

Tarot for Writers by Corrine Kenner

The Witch’s Guide to Manifestation by Mystic Dylan

Wardrobe and Fabric

MasterClass: Style for Everyone by Tan France

Ready to Wear by Mary Lou Andre

The Curated Closet by Anuschka Rees

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