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24/7
On Being a Slave for My Entire Adult Life
Anticipatory Service
Autonomy in Anticipatory Service
Control/Service-Oriented and Anticipatory/Reactive Service
Invisible Anticipatory Service, Setting Your Own Recurring Tasks, and Some Advice
Learning in Anticipatory Service, and Some Advice
CNC
“But You Could Walk Out Right Now”: What Really Keeps People in Relationships
Decision Making and Internal Enslavement: A Metaphor
No Safewords, No Limits: An Elaboration
Shaming of “Unethical” Dynamics Within the Community
What Makes Irrevocable Consent Okay?
What We Talk About When We Talk About CNC Stigma
Why I Chose Irrevocable Consent as a Label, What It Means to Me, and Why I Write About It
Day in the Slave Life
The Morning Ritual (Evolution in M/s)
Today’s Morning Ritual (Reality in M/s)
Lifestyle Masochism
Example: Top Three for the Week
Example: Your Presence Is Requested
What I Talk About When I Talk About Masochism
Protocol
“But How Do You Just Hang Out?”: High Protocol in 24/7 Dynamics
“But Isn’t It Automatic?” (Learning in High Protocol)
High Protocol: The More Natural-Seeming the Dance, the More Thought-Out the Choreography
My Typical Day, Told in Slave Positions
Noticing the Fork: How the Little Protocols Add Up
On Asking Permission vs. Being Offered It
Six Near Misses (In 24/7 High Protocol)
The Slave Bell (Our Pager System)
Uniforms and Challenges, the Literal and a Metaphor
What Protocol Really Says, Again
Service
Balancing Control and Decision-Making as a Service
I Don’t Think of Self Care as Service
My Style of Entertaining, and Where I Got It From
On Service Settings and Headspace
Selecting Service Tasks in a World of Automation and Outsourcing
Some Services S-Types Might Offer
Service Skills
Submission
An Ode to Broken Things (Pager Clips, Boots, Collars)
Gratitude and Ego in the Ascetic Slave
How Slavery Limits Me, and Why It’s Worth It
Letting Your M-Type Have It All
My Collar: Physical Considerations
My Top Three S-Type Archetypes in Vanilla Words
Potato Peeling and Sonnets: Is It More Submissive to Love a Task, or to Dislike It but Do It?
Service Slave Tendency Identification with Limited Kink Experience
When You Hit The End of the Leash
Tales From the Butler Academy
I’m a Slave; Why Am I Going to Butler School?
Is Butler School Right for You?
Tales From the Butler Academy: Etiquette Drills and Compassion
Tales From the Butler Academy: How Many Months Does It Take to Pour Wine?
Tales From the Butler Academy: Modules 0-9
Tales From the Butler Academy: The “Butler’s” Relationship With Their “Employer”
Service Slave Secrets 